“I won’t encourage ladies to marry before the age 28"– Venita
BBNaija Reality star Venita Akpofure shared her perspective on marriage, advising young ladies not to rush into it before the age of 28.
Venita, who expressed her own affection for her boyfriend from school, emphasized the importance of enjoying one’s youth and exploring various aspects of life before committing to marriage.
During the interview with Tacha, Venita encouraged young ladies to refrain from the idea of settling down too early.
BBNaija star Venita Akpofure advises young ladies against marrying before 28
Venita.
She pointed out the need for individuals to embrace their youth and experience different aspects of life before making a lifelong commitment.
Venita urged ladies to avoid the mindset of “high school sweetheart, we die here.”
She went on to emphasize the significance of being young and carefree before entering into marriage.
The reality star shared her personal stance on the matter, stating that she wouldn’t allow her daughter to get married before the age of 28.
According to Venita, individuals need time to discover themselves fully and try different experiences before deciding to be bound by the institution of marriage.
In her words;
“Do not marry young, I’m saying ideally — okay if my daughter came and approached me that she was ready to get married, if my daughter approaches me, as long as she’s not I swear to God, not up to 28, we can rock with it. Anything below 28, please no.”
“Because you’re going to change your mind and you don’t know all of who you are at 20-something. Don’t get me wrong, there are people who are mature oh. But you need to try different things in life, different experiences, to be sure of okay, I want to be stuck here. Because it’s handcuff, you’re there.”
“Because you’re stuck – that’s the social idea. Unless you’re Westernized like me, then you’re unstuck, you can unstuck yourself. I’m divorced. The ones that are enjoying now, ‘ll probably still reach a time where they’ll probably hate each other and still have to be in the same space.
“I’m telling you! Why do you think to say them get madam room and oga room? When the ground is shaking and I need space, I need space. Be in your room, I’ll be in my room. To me, an ideal marriage, my husband would have a wonderful house here, and mine would be over here, and there would be magnificent corridors connecting the two houses.”
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