Popular family life coach and Christian marriage counsellor, Pastor Bisi Adewale, has advised intending couples not to get married if they are not comfortable with s+x¥al intimacy.
Speaking during a recent episode of The Honest Bunch Podcast, Adewale stressed the importance of physical connection in marriage, saying many couples treat lovemaking as a duty rather than a bond.
“If you don’t like lovemaking, don’t get married. All these missionary journeys that we normally do, we must stop. When you enter the b%droom with your husband, you must never be decent — you must be recent,” he said.
The pastor further encouraged couples, especially women, to keep their marital intimacy exciting and memorable rather than routine or mechanical.
“Strange w@men outside don’t sl++p with men; they sl++p with the memory of men. But an average African w@man will only sl++p with the genital of the husband. You are to give him something to remember even when he gets to the office,” he added.
Adewale’s comments have stirred conversations online, with many viewers praising his candidness about an often unconventional topic, while others debate the cultural and religious implications of his message.
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