Writer and media personality Slumflower sparked conversations online after candidly discussing her dating preferences on the Gracefully Said podcast, explaining why she is more attracted to significantly older men.
“Yo! I date much, much older men… People have been annoyed that I said that I’ll date a man that’s my dad’s age. My dad’s 56 I don’t see anything wrong with that. I don’t think anything is wrong with that,” she said.
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She emphasized emotional compatibility and maturity as key factors: “I can’t mentally resonate and be at peace with a man who’s, like, 31. 31 is not mature enough for me.” She added that many younger men are still focused on careers and financial stability: “They’re still trying to build yourself… I like men who they’ve been through at least one divorce. Build finish and then come.”
Slumflower prefers partners who have faced major life challenges: “Love a divorcee… because they’ve gone through the stress… they’ve felt the loss.”
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Describing her ideal partner, she said, “I like men who somebody else has already kind of, like, whipped them into shape,” noting she is a difficult partner herself. Financial readiness is also key: “If you’re going to be around a woman as flashy, hot and young as me, you must be spending and men who are much older, they’ve kind of made peace with that.”
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